See, when I saw the posts, I composed a comment in my head, but then realized it was going nowhere except to end up as: yeah, it doesn't matter to me. So I didn't post *g*

My John is career military, but not a warrior and he's an lonly child. Everything else is negotiable or bendable

yes, excactly, I totally agree.

or negotiating to bend or more likely negotiating to see either Rodney make John bend or John make Rodney bend. *laughs*