My mom had only met my father's parents a handful of times before they were married, and my grandmother is intimidating by nature. I believe it was the second time they met, she started a conversation with my mother by leaning over and asking her seriously if she could "Ask her a personal question." My mother was sweating bullets, but it turned out to be something totally inconsequential. Once my grandmother had "hazed" her a bit, they eased up :)
Twenty five years later, they say she's a better daughter than the ones they produced, so I wouldn't worry. I'm sure planning a wedding is stressful and dealing with in-laws even more, but perhaps it'll make you feel less nervous around them -it's always good to be optimistic :)
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Date: 2006-12-21 04:18 am (UTC)Twenty five years later, they say she's a better daughter than the ones they produced, so I wouldn't worry. I'm sure planning a wedding is stressful and dealing with in-laws even more, but perhaps it'll make you feel less nervous around them -it's always good to be optimistic :)