firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!!! That is such lovely news and I am so happy for you. Secondly, the thing to remember is that you are marrying J and NOT his family, even though they are an important part of the process, they are not the ENIRE part. He loves you, they know this and it's probably all in your head. Thirdly, my sister got married this year and the mother in law was slightly nuts-trying to choose all of my sister's decorations and everything for the wedding, then trying to decorate their new house for them, even going through an entire store's inventory (at a store my sister hated) selecting items to make them a weddding register, so all the guests would buy them those items (which my sister and her fiance didn't get to choose even though it was their house) from that store. So, do not stress. The moral to this tale: There are worse mother in laws out there than those that say about the bride, "She is quiet." Although I find it hard to imagine that you are quiet. But even if you are it does not matter, you are LOVELY. be happy:) ~stufler
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Date: 2006-12-21 07:05 am (UTC)That is such lovely news and I am so happy for you.
Secondly, the thing to remember is that you are marrying J and NOT his family, even though they are an important part of the process, they are not the ENIRE part. He loves you, they know this and it's probably all in your head.
Thirdly, my sister got married this year and the mother in law was slightly nuts-trying to choose all of my sister's decorations and everything for the wedding, then trying to decorate their new house for them, even going through an entire store's inventory (at a store my sister hated) selecting items to make them a weddding register, so all the guests would buy them those items (which my sister and her fiance didn't get to choose even though it was their house) from that store. So, do not stress. The moral to this tale: There are worse mother in laws out there than those that say about the bride, "She is quiet."
Although I find it hard to imagine that you are quiet. But even if you are it does not matter, you are LOVELY.
be happy:)
~stufler